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My Wife Struggles Better
Cully Perlman explains that, in his marriage, mending requires paying mindful and constant attention to improving himself. ___A funny thing happened when I started writing this post. Instead of saving...
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Asian Girlz and Rock Stars
Cully Perlman, married to a Korean Woman, weighs in on Day Above Ground’s attempted career suicide.___When Day Above Ground recently released the video for “Asian Girlz,” the reaction was swift and...
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My Mother-in-Law Rejects What I Cook
Cully Perlman shares his desperate attempt to break his Korean mother-in-law of her old-school eating habits. (You’ll be hungry after reading this.) —My mother-in-law refuses to eat when I cook. She...
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Rage, Rage Against…Myself
Anger can be intensely damaging to relationships. Cully Perlman shares his account of battling with his own internal rage and its effects within marriage. ______I’m not one for therapy. I don’t think...
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Who Gets Custody Of Our Friends?
Imagining how our friends will fall in the wake of a divorce reveals much about our character and values.___Let’s say I’m in my early forties, married, the father of a young child. Now let’s say that...
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Seriously, Why Do We Marry?
No. Really. The real reason. Not the one we keep hearing about. We should talk instead about the one we actually know is true.___Why did I marry?It’s a simple question, at least on the surface. I...
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Never Cut Your Toenails at Night (And Other Lessons From a Multicultural...
For Cully Perlman, a marriage that crosses cultures is like a lucky charm.—Koreans, like all cultures and peoples, believe in superstitions. Not all Koreans, obviously, but many. Some of their...
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